you were the receiving person for this particular sex style Examples

• You are a female and had vaginal sex with a man. Then you should choose "passive"
• You are a man and another man took your penis into his mouth (also called blowjob), then you choose "passive"

you are doing some action towards your sex partner

• You are a man and having vaginal sex with a woman, then you choose "active"
•  You are a woman and having vaginal sex with a man, then you choose "passive"

Please, please do not write emails to Aidsgame.com cocerning about the proper use of the words "active" and "passive" Of course women are also play an active part in the above mentioned vaginal sex style. I am sure that your sex partner will highliy appreciate a pro-active approach on your side. :)

 "HIV" can be transmitted through mouth to mouth contact but only if there are sores in both mouths. The important risk factor here is blood in the saliva, not the saliva itself.

Wet kissing is safe provided there are no sores such as chapped lips, bleeding gums, herpes, loose fillings, etc. Even the risk is small, there is still a possibility. If you are HIV positive, you should be aware of this risk.

To be 99.99% save, do no kiss after your partner brushed his/her theeth, nor do kissing when your partners lips are chapped or you see any sign off blood.

If you are involved in a accident and have to reanimate a person, by blowing air in his/her lungs make sure that you do not have any sores in yourmouth!

HIV can be found in vaginal fluid of a person infected with the HIV. If you do cunnilinging be sure that you have no sores in your mouth.

Never do cunnilinging when you smell or see any period blood. The HIV concentration is much higher in blood than in vaginal fluid.

Having unprotected (without a condom) anal sex is considered to be a very risky behavior.

It is possible for either sex partner to become infected with HIV during anal sex.

HIV can be found in the blood, semen, pre-seminal fluid, or vaginal fluid of a person infected with the virus.

In general, the person receiving (passive) the semen is at greater risk of getting HIV because the lining of the rectum is thin and may allow the virus to enter the body during anal sex.

However, a person who inserts (active) his penis into an infected partner also is at risk because HIV can enter through the urethra (the opening at the tip of the penis) or through small cuts, abrasions, or open sores on the penis.

Vaginal Sex
WITHOUT protection
Sperm was ejaculated inside

Vaginal Sex
WITHOUT protection
Sperm was NOT ejaculated inside  

It is possible to become infected with HIV through vaginal intercourse. In fact, it is the most common way the virus is transmitted in much of the world.

HIV can be found in the blood, semen, pre-seminal fluid, or vaginal fluid of a person infected with the virus.

The lining of the vagina can tear and possibly allow HIV to enter the body. Direct absorption of HIV through the mucous membranes that line the vagina also is a possibility.

The male may be at less risk for HIV transmission than the female through vaginal intercourse. However, HIV can enter the body of the male through his urethra ( the opening at the tip of the penis) or through small cuts or open sores on the penis.

If an infected male ejaculate semen into the female vagina the female is at bigger risk since the concentration of HIV is much higher then when the male would ejcaculate his semen outside the vagina.

Vaginal Sex with protection

Congratulation, you choosed the worlds most practiced Saver Sex.

If you choose to have vaginal intercourse, use a latex condom to help protect both you and your partner from the risk of HIV and other STDs. Studies have shown that latex condoms are very effective, though not perfect, in preventing HIV transmission when used correctly and consistently. If either partner is allergic to latex, you can use plastic (polyurethane) condoms for either the male or female can be used.

You do not have to use your sex partners real name. Sometimes you even do not remember the name. Shame on you :)

Use a phrase or name you associate with the person instead like

• Michael Jakson
• The Guy at Pacific Beach
• The neighbour on 2nd avenue
• Etc, etc.. etc..

Be creative as long you remember who is who! :)

For you information:
Non of your data is passed to any third party.

Use this field if your entry applies to more than one person.

For example: If you had sex with 5 person and all entry would be the same for this 5 person, you can take a shortcut and enter "5" in the field "Count Person as"

You also can make use of the "Count Person as" field when you do not remember all of your sex contacts, but you know there were some contacts. For example:

• you went to a sex party and had sexual intercouse with 5 person or more.
• You come back from a "highly active" summer holiday but do not know a lot of details. You were just to drunk,
•  etc, etc etc.

In the Risk Group you select your risk behaviour, grouped by sexual contacts a year or since last negative HIV Test. 

As a matter of fact, the more sex a person has the riskier it gets. Thats why it is grouped by "sexual contacts a year".

Its sometimes tricky to choose your sex partners Risk Group and sometimes you have to guess.

Consider this example:

If you have sex with a prostitute you should choose "Group 1: more then 100 different sex partners a year"
Even you used condoms, you must rate this person as
"Group 1: more then 100 different sex partners a year"

However If you know that that person (the prostitute from above) had a negative HIV Test just yesterday, then you must choose "Group 5: 0 - 1 different sex partners a year"

If you know that that person (the prostitute from above) had a positive HIV Test just yesterday, then leave this website and go to a doctor immediately

This means where your sex partner had lived in the past years but not his/her nationality!

For example: You meet this wonderful guy Carlos, his is living in the States only since one month. Before he lived in sunny Cuba. Therefore you should choose "Cuba" as his "Resident"

If you meet Carlos five years later in the States, then you choose "USA" as Carlos resident.

It does not matter Carlos has a proper visa. HIV virus does normally not care about Visas!